Walk with Mason, one-on-one.

Three hours a week with a man who's been where he is, for ninety days.

I'm Mason, 33, a member of a church here in Tulsa. From seventeen through my mid-twenties I was lost, and I tried to fix myself with everything but Jesus. He brought me home, and I'm still learning. I built Whole Man Project to walk young men down that same road.

What this is

I walk with a young man one-on-one, three times a week for ninety days. We meet for an hour on Monday, Wednesday and Friday, in person in Tulsa or on video. Between sessions he can message me on weekdays, and I reply the same day. We follow a written path, Scripture first, and then take his life one area at a time: his days, his body, his work or school, his money, his relationships, his church. The aim is a man who knows who he is in Jesus, is moving again, and is rooted in a local church with real brothers around him.

Who it's for

Young men 18 and older, most often in their early to mid-twenties, who feel lost, stuck or directionless and want something to change. He has to want this and ask for it himself, even if his father is the one paying. I won't take a man who is only being sent.

Who I am not

This isn't therapy or counseling, and I'm not a professional service. I'm a brother who has been here and has grown enough to help. If something clinical comes up, I'll say so and help bring in the right care, and I'll keep walking beside him.

Two or three men at a time, never more

I'm not running a caseload. Three hours a week each is what I can honestly give, and I give all of it.

What it costs

Nobody pays me to learn how to come to Jesus. That's free, written down and public at The Road Home. What a family pays for is my time and the structure: $1,500 a month, paid monthly. Stop any month, and I'll refund that month on request. No contract, no forms. After ninety days we talk plainly: continue, or step into the brotherhood in our community.

What he can count on

Whatever he tells me stays with me by default. What goes to his parents is what he has agreed can go. The one exception is danger to himself or someone else, and I say that up front. When a family wants it, I also sit down once a month with the parents, with his permission, to share my honest read and how they can best support him.

How it starts

There's no deadline and no pressure. Pick a time below.

  1. Parents: a free hour with me. I'll listen to the whole story and answer every question.
  2. The son, alone: a free hour. No pitch, just his questions.
  3. He asks. If he wants to walk this, he tells me himself, and we begin the following Monday.

A young man reaching out for himself can skip step 1.

Whole Man Project

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